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The Art of Slow Down…!

 🌿 “Life in the Fast Lane: Slowing Down Before We Burn Out” 🌿


By Dr Sunil S Rana


There comes a point in life when you start to feel like you’re not living but merely existing- tick-marking tasks off a never-ending to-do list, answering calls while skipping meals, glancing at the sky only through tinted car windows, and forgetting what silence sounds like. The world calls it “hustle”; I call it running on fumes.


In a society that applauds speed but ignores depth, I’ve begun to ask myself: What are we really rushing toward? And more importantly- what are we leaving behind?



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The Race We Never Signed Up For


From the moment we step into adulthood, we’re handed a stopwatch and told to sprint. Faster jobs, quicker meals, instant messages, rapid opinions. But in this digital and disposable age, where success is measured in likes and salary slips, we’ve quietly buried wisdom under WiFi.


I recall what Rabindranath Tagore once wrote:



But today, we hardly live in the world. We live around it- skimming the surface, seldom diving in.


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The Lost Art of Slowing Down


When I look back at my college days, the conversations were richer, the friendships deeper, and life a little slower, a little kinder. We sat under trees discussing Plato and Premchand, sipping tea that was more about the warmth of company than the caffeine.


Those were the days of soul over speed.


Now, even our morning prayers are timed, our sunsets Instagrammed, and our weekends swallowed by spreadsheets and status anxiety.


An old English idiom hits home:


And yet we do- until the wax of our well-being melts entirely.


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Reclaiming Our Time, Thought by Thought


Sometimes I wonder- what if we just paused? Not because a therapist told us, but because our inner voice whispered so. What if we unplugged not just our devices, but our anxieties too? What if, for a change, we measured a good day not by productivity, but by presence?


Eckhart Tolle said,



But how often do we honour this truth?


We owe it to ourselves to slow down, to do less but feel more, to be still- not out of laziness but out of consciousness. There’s no shame in silence. There’s grace in grounding.


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The Wisdom of Stillness


India has always revered the power of silence. Our rishis didn’t tweet wisdom- they lived it. Our Gurukuls didn’t thrive on noise- they grew in quiet reflection. It is said in the Bhagavad Gita:

in action.

But what’s the use of skill when there’s no soul left in it?


In the West too, Thoreau once withdrew into the woods and came back with this revelation:


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A Personal Pledge


So today, I make a simple promise- not to the world, but to myself:

I will sip my tea slowly.

I will pause before reacting.

I will walk barefoot on the grass.

I will stop chasing weekends and start living weekdays.


Because I’ve realised that if we don’t choose to slow down, life will do it for us- in the form of burnout, breakdowns, or bitter regrets.


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Final Thought


The irony of modern life is that we’re so busy earning a living, we forget to live a life. But it’s never too late to shift gears, to exit the fast lane, and to find joy in the journey- not just the destination.


As Rumi beautifully said:


Let’s rise. Let’s reflect. Let’s return- to ourselves.



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