Be Practical…!

 Basic Rules for a Peaceful Life

By Dr. Sunil S Rana

Life is too short to keep living by mere formalities. Yet, many of us spend years doing exactly that; constantly adjusting, endlessly accommodating, and always worrying, “Wo bura na maan jaaye” or “Koi ni, agar usne phone nahi uthaya, wo busy hoga.”

But the truth, which we often choose to overlook, is that sometimes the other person is simply ignoring you. Their silence is not always busyness; their absence is not always circumstantial. And still, we keep making excuses for them, trying to maintain a balance that often tilts only one way.

We fail to recognise the subtle language of disrespect; messages left unanswered, calls ignored, visits never reciprocated, and a consistent lack of effort from their side. Out of habit, or perhaps fear of losing relationships, we keep stretching ourselves thin to fit into spaces where we are not valued.

The reality is simple: meaningful relationships thrive on mutual effort, not on one-sided compromise.

If someone truly values you, they will make time for you, no matter how busy life gets. And if they don’t, it’s a sign to stop overextending yourself.

Here are some basic rules to make your life more peaceful:

• Visit those who visit you.
• Call those who call you.
• Respect those who respect you.
• Support those who support you.
• Ignore those who ignore you.

Life is too short to adjust for everyone. Place people where they truly belong in your life; some close to your heart, others at a distance. Not out of bitterness, but out of self-respect and peace of mind.

After all, a peaceful life is not about how many people are around you; it’s about how many truly stand by you…