Psychological Aspect

 "Lizards: Uninvited Guests or Unsung Housekeepers?" An Observation by Dr Sunil S Rana  In countless households across the globe,  in India, a shriek echoes through the corridors every time a lizard is spotted on the wall. Be it a teenage girl doing her homework, or even a grown woman chopping vegetables- one glance at a gecko, and panic ensues. The fear is almost instinctive, passed down like family recipes from one generation of women to the next. But is this fear justified? Are lizards really the enemies we’ve made them out to be? The answer is a resounding no- and science agrees. Why Do We Fear Lizards? The fear of lizards, known as Herpetophobia, is more psychological and cultural than biological. It’s rarely based on any real threat posed by the creature. In fact: Lizards do not bite or attack humans. They don’t spread diseases like rodents or flies. They are mostly nocturnal, shy, and avoid human contact. So where does the fear come from? It stems largely from myth...

"अनुभव अब शोर बन गया है: जब समझदार बच्चे भी माता-पिता की बात नहीं सुनते" डॉ. सुनील सिंह राणा द्वारा "अनुभव एक कठिन शिक्षक है, वह पहले परीक्षा लेता है, फिर पाठ पढ़ाता है।" - वर्नन लॉ हर माता-पिता के जीवन में एक ऐसा समय आता है जब उनकी सलाह को शोर समझा जाता है, उनके प्यार को नियंत्रण माना जाता है और उनकी चुप्पी को उपेक्षा समझ लिया जाता है। यह दौर अक्सर किशोरावस्था के अंत या वयस्कता की शुरुआत में आता है, और यही माता-पिता के जीवन का सबसे दर्दनाक विरोधाभास बन जाता है - जैसे-जैसे आपने जीवन को जाना और समझा, बच्चे आपकी बात उतनी ही कम सुनने लगे। आज की पीढ़ी को आज्ञाकारी बनाना मुश्किल है - उन्हें स्वतंत्र सोचने वाला बनाना ज़रूरी हो गया है। लेकिन जब वही स्वतंत्रता घमंड में बदल जाए, और वह आज़ादी लापरवाही का रूप ले ले - जब आप बस पूछ लें "बेटा, कहाँ हो?" और उधर से कोई जवाब ही ना आए - तब दिल भीतर से टूटने लगता है। "सब पता है हमें!"- ज्ञान का घमंड आज के किशोर तेज़, पढ़े-लिखे और डिजिटल दुनिया से लैस हैं। उन्हें लगता है कि उन्होंने सब जान लिया है- जबकि हकीकत ये है ...

When Experience Becomes Noise: The Paradox of Parental Wisdom in an Age of Adolescent Independence  By Dr. Sunil Singh Rana “Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterward.” -- Vernon Law There comes a time in every parent's life when their words of wisdom are treated as unsolicited noise, their concern mistaken for control, and their silence interpreted as indifference. This phase, often during late adolescence or early adulthood, is the most painful paradox of parenting: the more you've lived and learned, the less you're listened to. Modern parenting isn’t about raising obedient children; it’s about nurturing independent thinkers. But when that independence morphs into arrogance, when freedom becomes disregard, and when the phone remains unanswered despite dozens of calls asking for nothing more than “Are you okay?”, the emotional burden is hard to carry. The “Know-It-All” Age: Adolescents today; sharp, educated, and hyper-infor...

🕊️ “Each Breath Is a Blessing: A Reflection After the Unthinkable” By Dr. Sunil S Rana Lif e is so wildly, achingly unpredictable. One moment, you're laughing at a joke on a flight. The next, the world changes forever. That’s what happened to the passengers aboard the ill-fated Ahmedabad–London Air India flight. Innocent lives; children, parents, students, professionals; were lost in an instant. They were not at war, not in a conflict zone, not in danger by choice. They were simply… living. They trusted the next moment would come. Just like the jubilant fans who filled a stadium, only to be trampled in a stampede. Just like the students who headed to the hostel mess for lunch, only to face the crash of a falling aircraft. None of them had read their last page yet. They didn't know their goodbye was already written in fate’s ink. This is the cruel, piercing truth about life: Death doesn’t announce its arrival. It just… enters. Silently. Instantly. Without explanation. ...

  🕊️ The Sound of Your Wings: Why You Can’t Please Everyone !?! By Dr. Sunil Singh Rana In a world overflowing with opinions, unsolicited advice, and judgments passed faster than light, one simple yet profound quote from a psychologist resonates deeply: "Even if you are an angel, there will be people who will be disturbed by the sound of your wings." This poetic statement carries an eternal truth: no matter how noble your intentions or how gracious your actions, there will always be individuals who are irritated, threatened, or confused by your very presence. 🎭 The Mirror of Perception... People don’t see you as you are ; they see you as they are . Their judgments are often projections of their insecurities, pain, envy, or unresolved conflicts. Your light might expose their darkness. Your calm may disturb their storm. As Eleanor Roosevelt put it plainly: “Do what you feel in your heart to be right; for you'll be criticized anyway.” In trying to please t...